Lisa’s close family members claim they’re embarrassed by her, regret lending her thousands of dollars they never got back, and are worried about her daughter Faith
Lisa’s appearance on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days isn’t some overproduced reality-TV persona or a messy storyline cooked up by TLC—according to her own family, this is exactly who she is in real life.
As fans dig deeper, Lisa’s sister Amanda has been openly confirming that the chaos viewers are watching didn’t start with the cameras. Lisa's sister, Amanda, who has been extremely active in 90 Day Fiancé Facebook groups, says Lisa is mentally ill, deeply unstable, and has been living like this for years. She insists Lisa is not a misunderstood character but a real person whose destructive behavior has embarrassed the entire family, close relatives and distant ones alike, especially now that Lisa has put her life and her relationship with her Nigerian boyfriend Daniel on national television.
Amanda didn’t just drop vague hints—she wrote lengthy Facebook comments replying directly to fans, spelling out how bad things really are. She said she was asked to be on the show herself but refused, explaining that she couldn’t be part of something that would further hurt her niece, Faith. According to Amanda, Lisa and Faith are dangerously codependent, and the two need to be separated because Lisa is actively ruining her daughter’s life. She says Faith has been put through hell by her own mother and continues to suffer because Lisa refuses to let go or get help. Amanda added that Lisa is a habitual liar and a disastrous person, which lines up perfectly with what viewers are seeing this season—Lisa lying nonstop, including hiding from her Nigerian man, Daniel that she’s broke, that she dated women for 20 years, and that she’s still legally married to her ex-wife.
The financial mess is just as ugly. Amanda claims Lisa has borrowed thousands of dollars from family members over the years and then cut them off to avoid paying them back, despite the family repeatedly trying to help her—not just financially, but emotionally and practically. According to her sister, Lisa has a long history of asking for money from everyone: family, friends, and even strangers, allegedly running multiple GoFundMe pages over the last decade and scamming people out of cash. Amanda revealed that just two months ago Lisa contacted the family again, begging for $2,000 to avoid eviction. They gave her the money, she promised to pay it back, and—just like always—she never did. Amanda says the family’s biggest fear isn’t Lisa embarrassing herself on TV, but the lasting damage she’s doing to Faith, all while continuing the same cycle of lies, bad relationships, debt, and manipulation that viewers are now watching unfold in real time.
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