During their time on 90 Day Fiancé, Ashley and Manuel’s relationship raised eyebrows among viewers. The couple often appeared tense and emotionally disconnected, with Manuel giving off the impression that he was using Ashley for a green card and would eventually leave her. His behavior on the show—often whiny, dismissive, and unsupportive—led many fans to label their relationship as toxic. Ashley, too, seemed emotionally drained, and their dynamic sparked concern across social media.
But two years into their marriage, things have taken a surprising turn. In a heartfelt Instagram post, Ashley shared that Manuel has become her biggest support system, especially during her weight loss journey. “This man has been the biggest support throughout my weight loss journey. He’s loved me the same way in the 300’s as he does now,” she wrote, adding that he’s been by her side as she’s evolved into new versions of herself. She emphasized the importance of having a strong support system and credited Manuel for helping her stay aligned with her goals.