Sarper Güven has always been known as someone who keeps to himself, rarely engaging in drama with fellow 90 Day Fiancé cast members. However, something he recently saw on social media pushed him to break his usual silence and publicly criticize Amani Jlassi and her husband, Matt.
The fan page "Therealitytvmess" posted a clip from Amani and Matt’s recent Instagram Live, where the couple was casually eating, drinking, and answering questions from fans. What caught Sarper’s attention—and the attention of many viewers—was the couple’s use of vulgar language and discussion of adult topics in front of their minor children. Many parents would consider this inappropriate, as children tend to absorb and imitate what they hear from their parents. Sarper, clearly disapproving, left a comment under the reposted clip, stating, "In front of the kids, look at the language they use," implying that he found their behavior unacceptable and believed adults should be more mindful of their words around children.
Amani quickly noticed Sarper’s comment and wasted no time responding. She posted an Instagram Story, making it clear that she had never spoken negatively about Sarper or his relationship, and she expected the same in return. Her message was direct: "Better stay in your lane." This reaction suggests that Amani was not pleased with Sarper’s unsolicited parenting advice and felt that he had no right to judge her and Matt’s choices. While Sarper has never been known for stirring up drama, his comment has now placed him in the middle of a heated debate about parenting and public criticism. Fans are divided—some agree with Sarper’s stance, believing that parents should be more cautious about what they say in front of their children, while others think he had no business commenting on Amani and Matt’s parenting style.
Interestingly, Sarper himself was never considered a role model as a father. In a previous season of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, he revealed that he has a son from a Russian tourist he met in Turkey years ago, and there are rumors that he may have other illegitimate children he is unaware of. Despite his own complicated history with fatherhood, he still felt compelled to call out Amani and Matt’s behavior. Whether his comment was made out of genuine concern or simply a moment of frustration, it has undeniably sparked tension between him and Amani. With the Season 11 Tell-All approaching, fans are eager to see if this unexpected feud will escalate further or if the cast will address the controversy head-on. One thing is certain—Sarper’s rare involvement in drama has made this situation even more intriguing.