Jen Boecher, a former cast member of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, has found herself at the center of controversy after weighing in on the recent domestic abuse allegations against her Indian ex, Rishi Singh.
When news broke that Rishi had abused his wife, Maria Lulu Ramirez, fans of the show were quick to rally around Maria, sending her messages of support and encouragement. However, curiosity also led many to question whether Jen had suffered similar treatment during her relationship with Rishi and had chosen to remain silent to protect his reputation. In response to the growing speculation, Jen took to Instagram this week to address the concerns. She confirmed that Rishi had never physically harmed her but expressed deep disappointment upon seeing the disturbing images of Maria’s bruises and scars. Jen then announced that she would be going live on Instagram soon to share her thoughts on the situation and answer any questions from fans.
Maria, however, was not pleased with Jen’s decision to publicly discuss her experience with Rishi. She felt that Jen had no right to speak on the matter since she was not present during the abuse and had not endured the same suffering. Frustrated by Jen’s involvement, Maria confronted her on social media, leading to an intense exchange that ultimately resulted in Jen blocking her. Shortly after, Jen posted again on Instagram, attempting to de-escalate the situation and explain why she had blocked Maria. She insisted that she was only trying to provide clarity for fans who had reached out to her, but her explanation did not sit well with either Maria or the *90 Day Fiancé* fanbase. Many felt that Jen was making Maria’s traumatic experience about herself rather than offering genuine support or simply staying out of the matter.
The backlash against Jen intensified when a Reddit thread surfaced, reposting her Instagram statement and criticizing her response.
Is she really turning the abuse Rishi’s wife experienced into something about herself?
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